This is one of the biggest questions I get from couples: Should we do a first look?
If you’ve been wondering the same thing, I’ve got you. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer here, just what feels right for you. So let’s walk through the pros and cons together!
First off, what is a first look?
It’s a sweet little moment where you and your partner see each other for the first time before the ceremony. It’s usually quiet, emotional, and just the two of you soaking it all in while I capture every little reaction from the sidelines.
The Pros of a First Look
You get a moment to breathe and just be together.
Wedding days are full of excitement and movement. A first look gives you a little pocket of peace before everything gets going. It’s just the two of you, and it’s magical.
Bye-bye, nerves!
Seeing each other before the ceremony can help calm those butterflies. I’ve seen so many couples take one look at each other and instantly relax. It’s the sweetest thing.
More time for dreamy photos.
Doing a first look opens up your timeline. We can take couple portraits, wedding party pics, and even family photos early. That way, after the ceremony, you can actually enjoy your cocktail hour!
Gorgeous natural light.
If your ceremony is later in the day, a first look means we can take advantage of all that glowy, golden light while it lasts.
You get to enjoy more of your day.
With a first look, you can celebrate with your guests sooner. More hugs, more champagne, more memories!
The Cons of a First Look
It’s not the traditional route.
If you’ve always imagined locking eyes at the altar for the very first time, then waiting might feel more meaningful for you. And that’s totally okay!
Your day starts a little earlier.
You’ll need a slightly earlier start for hair, makeup, and getting dressed. But hey, more time in that gorgeous gown isn’t the worst thing, right?
The emotion is a little different.
A first look is private and quiet. The aisle moment is more of a shared energy with all your loved ones around. Both are beautiful—it just depends what kind of moment you’re dreaming of.
You might need a quick touch-up.
Depending on where we do your first look, you might need a little fluff or freshen-up before heading to the ceremony. Don’t worry, I always bring my emergency kit and extra hands!
So… what should you do?
Go with your heart. Whether you want a quiet moment together before the ceremony or you’re saving the surprise for the aisle, I’m here to support you and make sure the photos feel exactly like you.
Need help planning your timeline? I’ve done this a time or two and would love to help make your day flow beautifully. Let’s chat and dream it up together!